Based on your honest initial answer of being selfish and focused on your own orgasm, it would seem that real true submission is not for you. And that is okay....   Really it is, W/we all need to embrace who we ARE, not who we think we should be...

I recommend you go here and find more information about yourself, as there is a lot of really good information out there about who you are, and why you should continue seeking your happiness exactly as you need to.

The important thing is to embrace who you are, and not hide from it.

Thank you for checking ME out, this a great journey for all of U/us.